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There's nothing written in the start that declares that you can't have what you want.

In your business.

In your relationships.

In your life.

There are no rules. No constructs. No papers. Nothing that says what you want can't happen for you.

You are more than capable of living your best life.

It is not about luck. It isn't about looking at the cards you were dealt with and believing you can't play this round because you have a crappy hand.

There is room for you.

You might have to blow your life up in order to get to where you want, but there's always room for you.

I blew my life up. One tiny explosion at a time.

I had everything I thought I wanted- the successful career, the beautiful family, the gorgeous and adoring husband, the beautiful house. But something deep and powerful was missing. And the nudge came in wondering "This isn't exactly it."

I felt bad for wanting more. Wasn't what I had what I'd always dreamed of? Yes.

Was I happy? To a degree.

Was I greedy for wanting it to be different? I found out, no.

And so I discovered myself on a path of tiny explosions. We moved. I pursued a new career path. I became an entrepreneur. I started parenting differently. Friendships changed and ended. I healed lots of wounds around sharing + claiming my true self. I discovered how to utilize both my divine feminine and masculine energies to run my business & work.

But on the other side of tiny explosions... the ones that shifted my soul path, the ones that expanded how I parented and showed up in my life, the explosions that connected me to my divine life... on the other side of the those was a life I couldn't imagine. And it is so much better than I dreamed.

If you are feeling a nudge from your intuition + the universe for something more...

... for a business that divinely serves you instead of drains you...

... to let go of the worry and fear that runs how you do life...

... for a way to go to your next level in your soul work that feels incredibly grounded... heal the persecution and sister wounds that keep you stuck playing small and in the same damn patterns...

... set boundaries that support you and the work you do...

... expand how you create wealth in your life...

.... claim your sovereignty in your life + work...

You've got this.

With love,


The better it gets, the better it gets. A few of my mentors have said this... and recently it landed on me in a new way.

What if we rise? What if things only get better? What if we quantum shift from whatever is keeping us in a perpetual feast + famine and only subscribe to the feast?

Would that make us greedy? Out of touch? Un-relatable?

Or would that create safety for us to do our jobs and influence the people we are here to support in a whole new way?

What if it gets better and stays that way? What if we don't have to subscribe to a way of thinking that the good only comes around so often and that no matter what kind of good we experience that it has to come with a downfall?

I used to say "This is great... but...."

For example, "My business is doing so well this month, but who knows what it will look like next month."

Or, "The boys are in a really good place and things are flowing right now, but who knows what next week will be like."

Or, "I am feeling so good in my body today, but who knows how I will feel like tomorrow."

Even if things felt good, I would set myself up to be prepared for the downfall. For every single situation in my life.

But here's the shift:

What if my business gets to do well, and have sustainable, continuous and growing income every month?

What if my boys + my family get to be on a trajectory that things get to feel good all of the time, not just every once in a while?

What if I get to feel on fire and flourishing in my body everyday, not just some days?

What if the better it gets, the better it gets?

Play around with the thought that your success, bliss or happiness doesn't have to come with a side order of hardship too. We can do hard things, but we don't have to subscribe to hard-er as a default.

What if more aligned clients + business flow to you?

What if you work less, but more potently?

What if your creativity is intuitively based and not pushed due to a deadline?

What if your relationship with money gets easier?

What if you feel really good in your body all of the time?

What if your relationships with your partner or kids gets to be more connected?

A good amount of my work for myself and with my beautiful clients is that we get to subscribe to a different kind of life than we were programmed for.

The better it gets, the better it gets.



Sovereign: Possessing supreme or ultimate power; freedom from external control.

Feminine: Features of a woman; compassion, empathy, collaboration, connection and candor.


There is a new paradigm in the business + leadership world. Have you felt the shift? As we embrace both the divine masculine + divine feminine energies in our world (not defined by gender, but by yin + yang) we expand our reach, our message and our wealth. By connecting into both flow and production, we find that our lives feel juicer, more connected and flourishing.

This is how the coach, creative, healer, visionary and leader shares her unique gifts with the world. This is how our soul work create impact, change and influence.

This is how we elevate our message, sustain our lives and create prosperity on all levels.

We have discovered that burning ourselves to dust is not a sustainable way to live. We want to flourish in every area of our lives. We know that if one area of our life is amiss, our entire life is amiss. We do not compartmentalize. We can't do that any more. We are unavailable to playing games. We no longer subscribe to scarcity. We do not welcome mis-alignment. We aren't meant to push. We aren't meant to force. We aren't meant to convince. We aren't meant to run our lives from a wounded masculine or feminine place.

We are meant to stand in our power and welcome people into our realms so that they can elevate with us.

We live in layered, detailed and multi-faceted microcosms. As sovereign, feminine leaders we embrace that pieces of our lives impact the whole. We embrace our feminine flow with our masculine structure. We heal our wounded parts so that we can change the world from a deeply grounded place. We meld all of the messy, juicy, connectedness of our lives so that we can live and work authentically. We are all experts of our crafts. We are all leaders of our work + lives. We are all partners in this sovereign path.

Three key qualities of a sovereign leader are:

#1. A Sovereign Leader embodies + owns her sovereignty. Embodied sovereignty is all about being conscious of your life and how you move through your life.

Here's three questions you can ask yourself when it comes to sovereignty:

• What are you engaging in right now that is either lifting you up or bring you down?

• What is fueling you- energetically, spiritually, physically?

• What is draining you- energetically, spiritually, physically?

#2. A Sovereign Leader is dedicated to her daily Queen Rituals. Rituals can be anything that grounds you, lights you up, and creates a feeling of flourishing. I recommend three daily ritual practices in the morning (journaling, meditation, oracle card reading) in the mid-day (walk, meditation, grounding, art making) and in the evening (self love, bath/shower, juicy novel, meditation, journal writing, gratitude practice.)

#3. A Sovereign leader is full of boundaries love. Boundaries are a fabulous way to create structure and feelings of safety throughout the day. This can included boundaries with clients., with your work hours, with job responsibilities and with how you price your offers. Boundaries can also be about your self.

Here's three questions you can ask yourself about your boundaries:

• What are you allowing for your self?

• What do you do that is not in your highest favor?

• Where are boundaries important in your life with your family, kids, friends, love and life?

The new paradigm encourages you to let your sovereignty be your guide. It's your inner compass. It helps you along your beautiful path to creating change in people's lives. It's the catalyst for new ways to lead, build your business and create exponential wealth.

Until next time, be amazing and do fabulous things.

Katherine xx

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