WE ALL COULD USE A LITTLE HAPPIER LOVE.
As my mama used to say,
"Honey, if you want to change the dance,
you gotta change the music."
This metaphor she would use when I was struggling in love, banging my head against the wall and wondering why it was so hard to be in the relationship
I was in. I was so done with not knowing how to really LOVE my love life.
How about you?
Maybe you are single, after you've been through the ringer with your past relationship (or relationships!)
Or, perhaps you are in a long term relationship and the spark flew out the window some time ago.
I KNOW YOU ARE READY FOR
You are ready for change, but you just don't know how to make it happen.
You are ready for hot, healthy, happy love, but you are afraid of making similar choices that you have in the past.
Maybe you are currently in a relationship and the spark has turned into a flicker (or burned out completely).
Or you are single, and have been knocked around by love in the past.
You are ready for something different in your love life.
I KNOW WHERE YOU ARE RIGHT NOW.
And, at points in my life I was likely right where you are sitting.
I offer a bit of who I am and my own love story down below, but for now, let's chat about you.
WHO IS HAPPIER LOVE FOR?
HAPPIER LOVE IS DESIGNED FOR ANYONE READY TO LEARN HOW TO CHANGE THE MUSIC TO THEIR DANCE OF LOVE.
If you are ready to learn about how relationships work, change some of the beliefs that have held you back, make changes in how you take care of yourself and your wellbeing, understand the dynamics of relationships and take yourself to the next level in life and in love, HAPPIER LOVE is for you.
HAPPIER LOVE IS FOR YOU IF:
>> You want to BLAST through the LOVE BLOCKS that have gotten in your way in the past.
>> You are READY to make internal changes that will OPEN you up for different love.
>> You want to CREATE, MANIFEST and MAINTAIN a relationship that lights your soul up.
>> You are TIRED of the same patterns you have fallen into in relationships and in picking lovers in the past.
>> You are a HIGH VIBE, PASSIONATE SOUL who has focused on your career for a time and you are ready to dive into a new love and want to make sure you manifest the person of your dreams.
HOW DOES HAPPIER LOVE WORK?
Once you hit the payment button, you will receive the course and bonuses in full. There's a welcome letter, an audio introduction, plus four distinct modules with audios and a workbook. In the complimentary workbook (I call it a guide), you will have the opportunity to use your creativity skills if you are inclined, with one art prompt per module.
You have the potential to create life lasting change for yourself and your relationships. The course is designed for you to learn to the foundations, and the properties of love- but also (and more importantly) to apply this knowledge to your own love life in a way that helps you up-level and change it. So... if you are attracting in new love, you will be ready for that person who matches you. OR, if you are in a relationship, you will know what you can do to elevate the spark.
Materials you may want: a journal, pen, sketch book, art pens, pencils, watercolor paints (or watercolor pencils- my favorite!), other favorite art supplies.
HAPPIER LOVE~ FOUR MODULES
PROPERTIES OF A RELATIONSHIP
In this first module, we will start with looking at what the key properties of a relationship are. We cover love languages, dynamics of a relationship and what makes a romantic relationship work in the long term. We'll also look at some of the psychology behind the kinds of people you have been drawn to in the past.
CREATING YOUR FOUNDATION FOR HAPPY LOVE
This module is all about really diving into deep self care (which is more than a bubble bath). We will focus on your triggers for stress, and how miscommunication can happen. We will also focus on your beliefs around love, specifically what is working for you and what is not.
ALL ABOUT LOVE BLOCKS
We are all about your love blocks and limiting beliefs this week. This one is a hard topic, but such a valuable one. Love blocks and limiting beliefs can be what holds us back in our relationships. We will cover how to get past those blocks.
MANIFESTING YOUR LOVE
We finish the course with this powerful module. We will cover the laws of attraction, and how to really manifest the love you want. This is a big one. We will wrap up with a final review of the other modules.
Along with this course you will receive a collection of FIVE videos all about manifesting happy love. And, you also receive two workbooks to up level how you engage in love and how you attract love in.
"This course was so enlightening, encouraging and transparent. I found myself listening to the audios repeatedly. I know understand what blocks me in love and how to make myself a priority daily." ~ Erika W.
"I loved how this course was organized. It allowed me to understand what I value in a relationship and how I communicate. I loved the workbooks the most- I really was able to understand myself so much better." ~B.H.
Hi! I am Katherine. I am a coach for women who are ready to break through the things that have held them back in love. Before becoming coach I was a psychotherapist for twelve years and worked with adolescents and their families. If you would like to get to know me better, here's my ABOUT page and also I am on Facebook and Instagram @love.katherinephifer
That's my husband Tony in the photo there with me taken in the summer of 2017. We were on a trip celebrating our 10th anniversary in Paris.
We are more in love now, if possible, than when we said "I do" in 2007. Before we even met, I believe we manifested each other.
We were ready in our lives to meet the other. I was ready to meet him.
I was ready for a partner that mirrored me, loved me passionately, and honored me.
Before Tony though, I was not ready at all.
Prior to my relationship with Tony, I had been in relationships that didn't quite fit. I spent time alone afraid of what would come next.
I spent time in a relationship trying desperately to make it work. I spent time in a relationship lacking passion, waiting patiently for it to come around again. I spent time wondering if drama would be what guided my romantic relationships for the rest of my life (uh, no).
After a significant heartbreak, I embarked on the internal work of really understanding self love. I learned quite a bit about relationships (and the qualities of an unhealthy one). I learned to love myself and hold my self love higher than receiving love from someone else. It was then that I was able to start calling in someone who really matched me.
I visualized the person I wanted in my life. I wrote it out in my journal making my wishes real. I was clear about my expectations, my boundaries and what I wanted in a partnership.
I knew what I didn't want in a relationship. I also knew what I was looking for in the person who matched me. And when I say match, I mean someone who matched my passion, my intelligence, my strength, and my love.
I found him. And, he found me.
And since then? Things haven't always been rosy. We have had significant hardships and heartaches to navigate through. But, we did just that. We partnered and we navigated through them. We drive each other crazy sometimes and we make each other really mad occasionally. But, here we are, more in love than we possibly were in 2007. I don't worry about drama or about whether or not he and I will ultimately stay married. I know that we have the ingredients in our relationship that we can get through hard things together.
With everything I've learned from the my own personal relationships,
plenty of education
by being a therapist a coach,
I want to support you to find,
attract and up-level
your own happy love.