What does being the wealthy woman mean? While feeling and being wealthy has a lot to do with money, it also has to do with how we live and what we embody.
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Hello and welcome back to the She's Sacred Show. I'm Katherine Phifer and I'm thrilled you're here. I've got Nefertiti here with me. She thinks that Christmas trees are for her pleasure and for her fun. And so you might hear some rustling in the background. I'm trying to keep her away from the tree because I don't want her to knock it over.
She literally thinks it's for her. She thinks it's a toy made for her. You should see her right now. She's a little embarrassed. So she's over here looking at me like, you weren't supposed to tell anyone. So today we are diving into another episode and the wealth series. I'm so excited to talk with you about this today.
I want to talk with you about what I think wealth means and what the wealthy woman embodiment means. So when you think about wealth, we often think about money. We think about what's in our bank account, what's in our investments, where we have invested money, and all of that is really important. All of that does symbolize wealth, but I like to look at wealth and a bigger picture, broader scale where we look at our entire lives and what wealth might provide for us.
In terms of living the life that we desire and doing the things that we want to do. We often have a lot of conditioning that comes up around The idea of wealth and what the wealthy woman means. I remember someone telling my mom when I was younger, which, my parents have generated wealth over their marriage, where they started with no wealth and accumulated it over time and made really good decisions with their money and their investments and their career choices. And my mom, when we lived in Scotland and England because of the agreement with the company. My mom was not going to have a part time job or work. And someone told her that she didn't live in the real world and someone close to the family. And I rolled my eyes then. And I roll my eyes now. Because the real world doesn't exist.
We all live in our own perception of what the world is, and we all live in our own idea of what the real world is, and so to say to someone you don't live in the real world is ridiculous. It honestly doesn't make any sense, but sometimes we are raised with the idea that A wealthy woman doesn't live in the real world.
A wealthy woman is taken care of. We assume that a wealthy woman comes by her wealth through a partner, a husband, a man. And that may have been more of the case 20 years ago, 10 years ago, but we are changing the paradigm of what the wealthy woman looks like and who she is and what wealth means for us.
And to be honest with you, it really doesn't matter how a wealthy woman comes by her wealth, really, in my opinion. I mean, I'm a little judgmental if it comes through means of scamming others or through means that are not legal. But besides that, it doesn't, who cares? Who cares? Then even then, who really cares?
Because when we start to think about just ourselves and our wealth accumulation, the whole world opens up in new ways. If we think about the energetics of wealth and about aligning to more capacity for wealth. Things get super groovy. And you know, I love to talk about energetics and I love to talk about energetics and the wealth realm, because when you start to open up your perceptions around what you can hold and what can come to you and what you can receive and what you can accumulate and what you can circulate and what you can give and all of the things that wealth might mean to you, there's a whole new dynamic in the playing field of wealth.
So when you think about the wealthy woman and the embodiment of the wealthy woman, what does that mean for you? What are your perceptions of her? What do you assume? Do you assume that she's terrible or a bitch or came through it by means that you would be judgmental about? Or do you see a wealthy woman and do you think, Oh my gosh, she's living such an amazing life and she's such a great example if she can do it.
I can do it. And even more so, if you see a wealthy woman, are you jealous? I used to be so jealous of wealthy women and the things that they had and what that meant and the life that they might be living. It's much like when I was younger and I'd see these models on YM or Seventeen Magazine and they would have these gorgeous bodies and I would be so jealous of the lifestyle that they had because of the bodies they had.
And that's what separates us. When we see people out in the world, we see celebrities or we see examples and then we feel like we're separated, that we're not good enough, that we can't have it. That separates us from really aligning energetically to what we desire. But that's a whole tangent we could go on.
Maybe another day. The real thing that I want to get into the weeds with you today about is this concept of what wealth means to you and what it affords you. When I think about wealth for me, it affords me the luxury of being able to stop and make dinner for my family every evening that I can actually make a gourmet meal because I'm capable of that and I'm a good cook and I can lean into the pleasure that it is to be creative in the kitchen and to make something that's going to be nourishing and soul affirming for my family.
That's really important to me. And I didn't always have that wealth. I didn't always feel like I could do that. I used to work, work, work, work, work, and then rush to make some sort of quick dinner. And it all felt really disconnected. And I realized that that's not who I wanted to be. I wanted to have the luxury of being able to cook a meal every night and put it on the table and have time with my family.
Wealth means to me being able to have my parents come and stay for a month at a time. And some of that wealth is being able to create a schedule so that I can spend time with them while they're here and really lean into the connection with them and to be able to afford people to take us places to Drive us to the little towns that are hard to park in or to take us to the airport to go on a trip.
The wealth is in the connection with my family. The money is amazing. It's the by product of that, but it's really the wealth of the ability to do the things that I want to do and to be in the energetic congruence of doing those Wealth is not a number in a bank account or in an investments or. or a net worth.
Wealth is in the ability to be able to pay for the things and to invest in the things that feel really good. To invest in sweaters that last more than a season. To invest in trips that our kids will remember for the rest of their lives. To invest in knickknacks that they'll take with them and have then for the rest of their lives.
to invest in good food that fuels their body and that fuels that my body to invest in food that doesn't wreck my body so that I can show up with so much energy for my family and for my clients and be here in a way that feels really good and really powerful and potent. Being the wealthy woman for me also means being able to hire support people in my life and in my work that can amplify my life.
So like I said, hiring a chauffeur to drive us places when I feel like the anxiety is just too much, like the parking is going to be, you know, really hard or we're going to put our car in a situation that it might be broken into or, which happens here by the way, or that I don't want to drive down tiny little streets and I would prefer somebody more seasoned to do that.
That's what wealth gives us the luxury to invest in, having a good time, having a wonderful time and coming home and not feeling super stressed because of it. Or hiring a house cleaner or hiring someone to help me hang the pictures on the wall or all the things that you can, hiring a personal chef if that's something that you, needed in your life, that would be a wonderful investment.
I mean, come on. Or in your business, hiring somebody to help with the social media management, or with your emails, or with hiring an online business manager to help with all the things that go on in your life. work. All of that is what wealth can afford you. But if you feel like the wealthy woman is not in alignment to who you are, you will not be able to energetically align to it.
You will keep yourself from being that person. Occasionally, I'll receive a backhanded compliment around being bougie and liking bougie things, and I don't even Take it as a criticism anymore. I am bougie. I like bougie things and bougie to me doesn't always mean expensive. It means something that adds to my life and that works and that is not going to break in the next year or isn't going to get a hole in it in the next year.
And let me tell you, when I've invested in something and it does break or it does get a hole in it within a short amount of time, I often give companies feedback around that because. That's not their brand values. Okay. So in a very short amount of time, we've unpacked a lot around who the wealthy woman is.
And I'd like to encourage you to do a little journaling about what wealth might afford you. If you were to embody the wealthy woman and there were no strings attached, there was no bad things that could come of it. Perhaps we just dispel all of the beliefs that the wealthy woman is or was not in alignment to who we are.
We just let that go. Then what would the wealthy woman for you be? What luxuries would occur in your life on a daily basis? What would wealth afford you and how can you expand it? How can you lean into that? So if you're moving towards wealth, how can it create more room for you? And if you currently have wealth, How can it create more room for you?
How can you shift the dynamics? Because I a hundred percent believe and know that you can as much as I know that I can continue to shape the dynamics in my life to live a life that feels really amazing and connected and on fire and in power because that's really ultimately what wealth affords us. And if this is speaking to you and you want to dive into the conversation more deeply, come join me inside of Ladonna Rica, the feminine energetics of wealth.
Ladonna Rica means the rich woman in Italian. I'm currently learning Italian, so I felt very aligned. This is a six week conversation around the dynamics of wealth, expansion in wealth, healing in wealth. This is a master's level conversation, which doesn't necessarily mean that you have to be rich in order to be in the program.
What this means is that you are ready for a higher level conversation around money. and around the energetics of wealth. So I would love to have you in there. We start January 6th, 2025. It's going to be amazing. And I would love to see you in there if it's, this is speaking to you. I also have two other episodes in the wealth series that you can listen to that came before this one is around how we talk about money.
One is around power, authority, influence, prestige, all the things when it comes to money. This one's around the wealthy woman. We will also be talking about money being an amplifier and how money amplifies energy.
Okay. Until next time. Be amazing. Do fabulous things. I can't wait to talk to you.
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