You wake up to the most beautiful day. You have slept amazingly. You take a deep, cleansing breath and with your eyes closed sigh into all the things you are grateful for.
Your children, (if you have them) wake in the best moods too. They have been feeling so much more calm now that your nervous system is regulated. They are mirrors to your internal world. They are happy to cheerfully greet the day with you.
Your lover is already up and making breakfast. He/She/They pad around the kitchen, tinkering with toast or pancakes or whatever they love to make. They hand you a cup of coffee and a kiss as you gracefully get yourself and everyone you need to ready for the day.
You spend a juicy amount of time getting yourself ready…this is a sacred practice. Perhaps you hop into a bath with bubbles and a candle or perhaps you find yourself in the steamiest shower with essential oils… you immerse yourself in pleasure in all forms. Your body is your channel to magnetism. Your root, sacral and solar plexus chakra turn right on and you feel tingly from all yumminess you offer yourself.
You dress in clothes that turn you on and that feel good on your body. You feel like you look amazing. You love on your body in the mirror, instead of throwing it comments of displeasure or hate, you are immensely grateful for what it has done for you and how beautiful it is.
You find your way to your work. You have the supports that your work requires. You have the supports that your life requires too. You have hired well, knowing that the people who lift you up are amazing at what they do. The cleaning person, the nanny, the assistant, the graphic designer, the business manager, the support team, the chef that cooks you meals, whomever it is that ignites your life is healthy, connected and flourishing because they are employed by you. You pay them well.
Your clients are doing the work. Your business is operating well. Money is circulating in. You feel confident that your finances only grow in an upward trend. Your work feels nourishing. You feel accomplished and purposeful. You are doing amazing things.
Your community feels healthy. Your friends are genuinely interested when you win and when you lose. They do the work on themselves so that they show up to your life with unconditional support and love. They are true sisters in a world that is still healing the sisterhood wound. And if your work is female community based, they too are led by your example. You are showing them how to show up to their lives in a new and powerful way, no matter their age.
If a problem arises, you handle it with grace. You know that you don't live in a vacuum and sometimes things can be challenging. But you also don't let those challenges consume you.
After work, you and your love meet for a date. They are so lit up by their own life, and so lit up by you. You are magnetic. Your energy is pulsating and calling them in. They can barely keep their hands off of you. And you love it. You relish in the ripening and ignition of your magnetism- with your lover and with everyone who enters your world.
You go home to make the yummiest love. You spend your evening happily doing the things that light you up, knowing tomorrow will be just as good as today.
This is the life of The Ignited Woman. She is intimate. She is deep. She is fierce. She is healthy. She is happy. And she is here to ignite herself and the world.
If you are ready for the delicious picture above, come on inside The Ignited Woman Year. This is an avant garde container consisting of the 7 programs I know it takes to be ignited, self expressed, intimate and lead with a regulated nervous system. This is the work. This is the year. 2023 sorted.
For the past couple weeks I have been sharing about a new, immersive experience for 2023 called The Ignited Woman. The Ignited Woman is a year long container dedicated to being the intimate feminine leader.
I believe that leadership is about intimacy. It's about seeing one another. Understanding one another. Motivating each other to be our best selves. And to run impressive, life changing missions too.
To be a whole, nourished, flourishing leader, there is a paradigm shift that occurs. We were brought up in a patriarchal cultural standard of leadership. And, with more women coming into the arena of leadership, that standard needs some tweaking. Women are entirely different life forms after all. For example, women operate on a 28 day cycle, but men operate on a 24 hour one. That alone creates a divide in the old paradigm and the new one.
I have been in some sort of leadership conversation since I was a teenager. I have tried to fit myself into the old paradigm. And while I was successful in terms of accolades and prestige, I also was burned out, having difficulty as a mother and disconnected to my friends, family and husband. I did not love my life. I did not feel turned on. I was not orgasmic. I was not abundantly flourishing.
I knew there had to be a better way.
Over the past five years as a business owner and a coach, I have been following the nudges to my own mission and sweet spot of what I am here to do. I have been on a twisty path that has landed on self love, happy relationships, manifestation and a few other things. And along the way I decided to incorporate all of it.
The Ignited Brand is about feminine, sacred leadership. It's about living the best, turned on, beautiful life while also holding powerful, wave making missions. We don't have to sacrifice our families for our work. We don't have to choose our work over our relationships. We get to have it all. And we get to be supported in every way imaginable to make it happen.
The Ignited Woman has three parts. There is the actual container of 8 programs (which I'll explain down below). There's an option to upgrade to VIP for more connected support if you desire. And, there's an option to be certified inside The Ignited Brand. If you desired to be an Ignited Practitioner in the future, or have your work referred by me, the certification process is fabulous.
Some of the programs below will be marketed next year to the public on their own. Some will not. And, until Saturday at midnight (12 / 31/ 2022) each of the three containers is on pre-sale. That means that the investment price of each will rise on Sunday morning.
A few more details for you…
Why Me? Why Katherine Phifer?
Leadership is in my DNA, from actual professional experience to a long line of leaders in my ancestry. I do not shy away from the challenging conversations. Each of the 8 programs is an initiation I have journeyed through and am happy to walk besides you as you navigate through each one. I am committed to our rise together, and I know what it takes.
The Ignited Woman Container
Each of the 8 programs will be delivered to you throughout the year. Some of the programs will be delivered live with a replay. Some will be a combination of personal work and live work. You don’t have to come to the live parts to benefit. If your learning style is to do things on your own time, without the constraints of meeting times, you can totally do that. And, if you desire to be in the live energy, you can do that too.
Everything will be designed to fit into your gorgeous life.
This is an information and practical based year. There will always be optional homework to take any information and apply it to your unique life.
Also! There’s a creative component! Art skills are not required, but if you love being creative, you’ll love this!
This is a Master’s level container.
Who The Ignited Woman is For
Artists. Business Owners. Coaches. Mentors. Professors. CEOs. Therapists. Teachers.Wellness Providers. Healers. Doctors. Entrepreneurs. Leaders. Women. Those who connect with femininity, and the sacred feminine. (In you are not a woman or identify as such, reach out and we’ll discuss if this container would work for you.)
Exclusively created for The Ignited Woman. A grounding place to begin your year long mastery as a sacred feminine leader. This is where we start- while fully appreciating everywhere you’ve been. Whether you have already made millions, are the CEO of your large corporation or you are just starting your path- this program will kick off the year.
The self love and intimacy healing work. The practices to fall back in love (or for the very first time) with yourself. The formula for your ignited leadership. The key to your turned on life.
A program on community with a feminine basis. Diving deep into community, sister wounds and sister healing- this is the program about leading communities, having deep friendship and operating from health.
Moving from unconsciously against one another to thoughtfully adoring each other.
A program on nurturing, boundaries, and navigating between mothering and leading. Also includes deep conversations about motherhood and leadership, motherhood in these times, and the separation of motherhood and work.
A program on passion, sex, romantic love, the channel to passion, and how this energy enhances your leadership. Includes work on orgasmic abundance, opening, and healing our minds, bodies and souls for the most beautiful and bountiful sexual energy. (Partnership or relationships are not required.)
A program on money. Money love. Wealth. Being a wealthy, heart centered, sacred leader. Navigating through the issues and things that keep us from prosperity. The mind, body and soul work to deepen your relationship with money.
A program on self expression and magnetism from the inside out. This is where all the work that came before this program will all click and you will start to put the pieces together for the most magnetic you. Clients, lovers, friends, employees… they will all be flocking to you.
The Intimate Leader
A leadership program with the foundation in intimacy. Leadership conversations that focus on integrity, connection, honesty and authenticity.
Are you ready for this?
The Ignited Woman begins in late January. We will have all the juicy time to settle into 2023 before diving into this very potent work.
If you are ready to say yes, here's the details page: The Ignited Woman
And, as always, please reach out on Instagram direct messages with any questions or to discuss which of these containers might be the best for you.
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Sometimes we miss the mark just a little bit. It's not our fault. There were clouds in the sky. The conditions were murky. We couldn't see the light. We are trying to map out our soul path without the appropriate tools.
Your North Star is your soul purpose. It's that thing that lights only you up. It's what you were brought here, at this point in history, to live out. It could be as complicated or as simple as your heart desires. It is only yours. And, it is meant to guide you home to you.
Often though, our soul mission feels a little too far to reach. It feels like we can't make it. It feels like it just isn't meant for us. Maybe we aren't that lucky. Or maybe we aren't supposed to move towards it in this lifetime. So, we don't. We sit back, and feel slightly unfulfilled or greatly unfulfilled because we aren't reaching our dreams.
The predominant patriarchal culture says that our dreams are too big, or are too loud, or are just too weird. Our anxiety and fear say it's too much, too far, and too risky. Our family and friends raise their eye brows. Our work colleagues think we are a little nutty.
But, this is it! This is what we are meant to do! This is our soul purpose. And, only we can do it.
How do you find it? Because sometimes it feels like searching for something lost, or so deeply hidden, it's like searching for gemstones in the depths of the ocean.
Here's how to find your North Star...
You follow the clues. You follow the things that light you up. You follow the turn on. You follow the "YES!" You follow what makes you happy and happier right now.
You follow the clues for what kind of help you need in the moment. You can't do it alone (well, maybe you could, but it would take lifetimes). You seek support in whatever unique way suits you. Healers, therapists, coaches, mentors and all kinds of service providers are all available for your unique needs.
You let go of all the stuff that feels like it is weighing you down. You become unavailable for the things that are no longer in alignment to you. You release things like certain people, conversations, habits and mindsets. You decide that your soul mission is way more important.
You make peace with the things that cause you to feel like you don't fit in. You decide that the things that others find fault with in you might just be the keys to unlocking your greatest desires.
Maybe you really like bougie things and everyone you know looks down on that. Or maybe you are super lazy, but get things done when they light you right up. Maybe you desire to live a nomad life and travel the world with your laptop and a suitcase. Maybe you want to build a life where you do your work, home school your kids and you din't feel burned out in the process.
You trust the things that are bigger than you. The Universe, God, Allah, Angels, Spirit Guides... whatever you connect with. They are there and cheering you on. They want you to live out your soul mission. They want you to experience your desired life.
You move in little steps and in quantum leaps. Sometimes it will feel like this journey you are on is endless. Will you ever be truly there? Yes. But then you will be moving towards something even more juicy. The journey never ends. And, you can move as fast or as slow as you desire.
You come back to you, again and again. Daily. You come back to your North Star. You remember it's out there, no matter how foggy or cloudy the sky gets. Your North Star is yours and guiding you to you.
Until next time, be amazing and do fabulous things.
P.S. If you are new to my world and would like to take a peek into what I do, START HERE.
If you are craving a community of leaders who are on a mission to feel purposeful and ignited, check out MAVEN, The Society and Podcast.
If you'd like to read recent articles I've written:
Five Bespoke Ways to Ignite Your Spark
What To Do When You Lose Your Mojo